This woman is likely not displaying her best table etiquette in "A Word to the Wise" by C.D. Gibson (1900). |
Here's one modern observation from a 1923 etiquette volume*: "There was a time, not so long ago, when a most marked reserve was required between men and women in public. But to-day, with the advent of women into almost every branch of business, art and profession, there is a tendency to loosen this social barrier and create a more friendly relationship between men and women."
While most 1900s advice is amusing to today's girls and women ("Tight clothing spoils the complexion" and "When a girl is. . . in public places, she should never laugh nor talk loudly"), some advice*, even 100 years later, still rings true in 2010: "The young miss of to-day is certainly more thrilled with life and its possibilities than her sister of two or three decades ago ever was. . . . To-day life is shown to her as it is shown to her brother — as something beautiful, something impressive, something worthy of deep thought and ambitious plans."
We can all give thanks for that. Happy Thanksgiving!
* Both quotes from Book of Etiquette, 1923.
We can all give thanks for that. Happy Thanksgiving!
* Both quotes from Book of Etiquette, 1923.
So glad we don't have to all that today. I would explode. You see, I am nothing short of a tomboy. Nothing more, nothing less.
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